Tolerating frustration is accepting that things don't always turn out the way you would like and controlling all that anger and anger to transform it into effort and move on. It is excellent learning for children from a very young age.To achieve this, parents must teach children to channel all that anger and frustration.
Within the field of emotions, it is curious how all experts usually agree on something that we cannot ignore. It is not about knowing, recognizing, and managing our own emotions; not even to know, recognize and teach to value the emotions of others. No, it has nothing to do with that, it is related to talking about what we feel.
How many times do we see children who get angry if they don't play what they want? And kids who have real tantrums after losing a game? Surely many times we witness these situations ... Do you have an example at home of this? We tend to say that they are children with & 39; bad losing & 39;, children who do not tolerate frustration well, are very competitive, and who get angry when things do not go their way, in this case winning in a game.
The education and example that children receive at home is essential. The little ones are authentic absorbent sponges for learning and knowledge. As such, they reproduce what was heard, heard, lived and said at home like a gramophone. They look at everything, without filters, even the simplest gestures that go unnoticed to us.
Bubbles have something that fascinates both children and adults. Nobody can resist touching a playful bubble that walks in front of your face. However, the technique that we propose seeks precisely that: endure those irrepressible desire that we all feel when we see a pomp. The bubble game is a very interesting and fun tool to work on self-control with children, both at home and in the classroom.
It is unfortunate to reach a situation in which our son can go from being that charming little prince that reigns in our hearts, to the rude child, who governs our life with tyranny, who mistreats us verbally, leaves us in evidence, emotionally blackmails us , and that each time he moves further away from us because we do not exercise any authority over him, nor do we arouse his affections because they have no respect for us.
In many parents' effort to pamper their children, they often forget that their primary role is to prepare them for the real world outside of the family environment, keeping them safe and sound, and ensuring that they acquire the appropriate social behaviors to foster their autonomy as they are approaching adulthood.
There is often a lot of talk about the abuse of parents towards their children, but on less occasions, the issue is discussed when it happens the other way around, when it is the children who physically or verbally attack the parents.In these cases, the victim is usually the mother and it generally does not occur because the family is unstructured, the parents are too authoritarian or have low purchasing power.
One of the great issues that occupy us with children is that of discipline. All of us who are parents want to find the exact balance that allows us to set limits and get our children to respect them, without having to go to extremes that make us feel guilty and without damaging our relationship with them.
There are children who are more and less rebellious: there are those who from early childhood are rebellious and already want to impose their criteria and others who are more conformist or peaceful.However, as they grow up, our children have more arguments when it comes to arguing, They try to negotiate, impose their ideas or win those little day-to-day battles.
I recently witnessed a dynamic where the speaker asked a group of parents what were the main characteristics of what we would call & 39; a good boy & 39 ;. 90 of the attendees marked the same option: obedient. Indeed, that is the reality. Parents and teachers want or want our children to be obedient, and it is for a simple reason: children who obey give less work.
It is difficult to explain how you enter the world of addictions or why you get there. Simply, one day you try it, you like the feeling it gives you, and you start repeating until your world makes no sense without that addiction. It can happen to us as adults, as adolescents but also as children.
Why educate for peace? ”. This is a question that many parents and teachers ask me. However, the answer is simple: because it is the only thing that allows us to feel connected with others, and this is what really makes children happy, much more than a last generation toy!
Nowadays, we hear very often that children have lost respect for their parents. They do not obey the same, they reveal themselves to them, they question decisions, etc. But are we really following the right educational strategy to earn the trust and respect of children? Are we listening and respecting ourselves to our children?
Today it's time to see the world of colors. And with them, we are going to find out what color (blue, green, red or yellow) represents our baby. And no, we are not talking about giving blue to boys and pink to girls, but about getting closer to defining some behavioral traits of our little one through colors and knowing if he has the soul of a boss in the future or what they will be like. your relationships with others.
When I was little I was fascinated by Wonder Woman. His strength, his bearing and his power made me also want to have a superhero shield to fight the evildoers of my city. And like me, many children have dreamed of becoming one of the cape heroes that are so fashionable. They dress up, create their own wonderful weapons, run around the house.
We have all seen children passionately playing both outdoor games, board games or any other situation where there must be a winner. Everyone wants to win and the reactions when they fail can range from accepting defeat with honor (the least), to crying bitterly, getting angry pointing out guilty or leaving the game without explanation.
Psychology has been telling us for years how the choice of one color or another influences our life and says a lot about us. But not only do we choose colors to express ourselves or convey our emotions, it is that we ourselves are also made of colors. Have you heard of the color test?
You notice that your child has great vitality and that he loves to put on scraps and overcome them, but at the same time you appreciate in his daily behavior that he is often frustrated because he is too firm and authoritative. Do you know why all this happens to him? According to the color test, your child has red energy.
When you are a mother and you watch your child play in the park, many times you say to yourself: & 34; This child has the makings of a leader. Goes for Prime Minister & 34 ;. Or, conversely, you think: & 34; My little one has a special gift for social relationships. & 34; And you may not be wrong because these personality traits are linked to a certain color.
And you, what color do you see the world? We all have black days, we turn green with envy or blush with shame. And it is that, people are in themselves an authentic palette of colors. And although we mix all the tones there is always one that defines us. Do you want to know what color will mark your little one?